10 Reasons You Should Break Up

10 Reasons You Should Break Up

Suddenly, every little thing he does annoys you, no matter how innocent it really is. You can either try to focus on the things that you loved about him in the first place, or you can break up.  

Everything he does annoys you.

Suddenly, every little thing he does annoys you, no matter how innocent it really is. You can either try to focus on the things that you loved about him in the first place, or you can break up.

You no longer like his personality.

At first he seemed charming. Then you realized that he’s not charming, he’s actually just conceited. Now you’re tired of constantly hearing him tell you how great he is. It’s time to break up.

You have different priorities.

You plan on getting your Master’s degree, and he’s happy with his GED. Can this work? Perhaps, but you clearly have very different priorities and life goals, which is bound to cause trouble in your relationship; it might be better to break up.

You no longer have fun together.

You used to have fun together no matter what you were doing, but now spending time together seems more like a chore than like fun. It’s time to either find a way to have enjoy each others’ company again, or break up.

You are constantly checking out other guys.

When you are in a happy relationship, you have no reason to check out other guys. When your relationship is failing, you start looking for something better.

You don’t miss him when he’s not around.

If you don’t miss your boyfriend when you’re not together, and you find yourself constantly looking for reasons not to spend time together, then it’s time to break up.

He is physically abusive.

When there is physical abuse, breaking up is always the right thing to do. You deserve to be with someone who respects you and cares about your well being, not someone who hurts you.

You are jealous of other relationships.

Do all of your friends seem to have better boyfriends than yours? Are you constantly comparing your guy to theirs and coming up disappointed? This is a sign that you are not happy with the person you are with.

You realize that you have nothing in common.

He wants to get married and have a bunch of kids; you want to focus on your career and have never really wanted kids. Situations like this often result in disappointment on both sides; consider breaking up before you both get hurt.

All you do is argue.

Lately every conversation turns into an argument. If this sounds like your relationship, then it might be time to break up. You both deserve to be with someone who makes you happy.

You no longer find him attractive.

If you are no longer attracted to your guy, it might be time to break up. Attraction is an important part of romantic relationships, and if it isn’t there, the relationship is bound to suffer.